RT Journal A1 Feudtner C T1 Grief-love: Contradictions in the lives of fathers of children with disabilities JF Archives of Pediatrics & Adolescent Medicine JO Archives of Pediatrics & Adolescent Medicine YR 2002 FD July 1 VO 156 IS 7 SP 643 OP 643 DO 10.1001/archpedi.156.7.643 UL http://dx.doi.org/10.1001/archpedi.156.7.643 AB A CONVOCATION OF FATHERS, united in their calling to parent daughters and sons who live with disabilities, convenes each year as the summer solstice approaches. Under the auspices of the Washington State Fathers Network (a nonprofit organization held together, barely, with bake sale brio) these 80-or-so men care for children of all sorts, from infants to teens to young adults, of diverse colors and creeds, with autism, cerebral palsy, or chromosomal rearrangements, with diseases afflicting the lungs, bowels, heart, or brain. Some of these fathers asked for this job, adopting their child with special needs; most did not. All gathered here, though, strive to meet the challenge.